During my chats with these men, I read confessions about wanting
to find new sensations or horizons outside their marriages. They
promised acrobatic maneuvers that their wives would not
entertain and offered to meet me anytime, anywhere, for sexual
pleasures. Wow…what a dead deal for me, huh?
There were women on these sites, most of them lesbians or
couples with bisexual women who wanted to find female partners
outside their committed relationships with men. Women-on-women
sex dating is very hot and trendy in the City of Light these
days. Why? Could it be that women are often disappointed by
male lovers, and thus are seeking out women to fulfill their
Sometimes I was shocked by the fantasies and the strange proposals of these
sex-lovers. As I was chatting on the forums, I found that most
men on these websites believed they can get quick, free sex
“like that!”—just a snap of the fingers. I wish life was
that easy. A good number of men told me that life is short so
they want to profit it to the max. I don’t know if their lives
are short, but they sure do sound boring.
I recently saw some public advertising (put out by the City of
Paris) in the subways and on the streets about love and condoms.
Hmmm, I wondered. Perhaps these sex-dating sites have been put
in place to fight against prostitution and disease. In return
for promoting safer sex, the city and its commercial partners
can share the profits from those paid, mostly male memberships.
Very clever indeed…
A few months ago, while a friend was visiting Paris to celebrate her birthday, I
surfed the Internet to find a creative place or venue to
surprise her. I stumbled onto a Paris-by-night website that
offer many discounts and prepaid dinners to Paris hot spots.
These night party events included famous shows such as the
“Crazy Horse”, “Moulin Rouge”, dinner and dancing cruises on the
Seine, etc. I’d chosen the dinner and show at Stringfellows at
€45 per person—that's a 35% discount off the regular price, which
is unusual given that Stringfellows is a table dancing show
invented by Peter Stringfellow, a Brit. The deco resembled
Shanghai dancing clubs in the 1920s, ‘30s and ‘40s, and the
place and its dancers are elegantly organized and superbly
The night we went, my friend, Carol, and I arrived a bit early, around 9 pm. There
weren’t too many people there yet and the strip show wouldn’t
start until 10 pm. The dancers were tall, with nice body and
breasts. They were dressed in extra tall high-heeled shoes and
tight short dresses. There was a strict “no-touch” rule
being enforced by the tight security team and so there was no
worry when they stripped topless.
Luckily, Carol and I were seated next to two other couples, as most
of the clients were men. After the table performances, the girls
would go around inviting single men to pay for lap-dances at a
cost of €25 to €45. For ten minutes of wiggle, we could pass and
as we ate, we talked to the people in tables surrounding us.
Carol is also American and at the end of the night, we both
agreed that the French people, both men and women, are very open
and gay about their sexuality and the pleasures of sex. It is
not all hype. And as they excitedly spoke about their
experiences (sans taboos), we ended up having lots of fun in a
very warmth and sensual ambience. It was one of my most
unforgettable nights out with the girls…and they were beautiful
Wow…what a sexy world.
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