MISTAKE #6: Relying On
Your Natural Ability To
Judge A Man's Character
People aren't easy to figure out. Especially men.
The last several years of my life I've
spent hundreds of hours learning to understand
people. I've studied peoples behavior, “inner
psychology” and more specifically how they
think and act when they're dating.
MISTAKE #7: Expecting A
Relationship To Make You Happy
From what I've seen, both men and women
have their own secret ways of saying things. But you can only see these secret
communications if you know what to look for. Women communicate with hints, body
language, sarcasm, and flirting when they're
first getting to know a man. They can either directly or indirectly
let men know if they're open to something
Men are different.
Men generally communicate with sarcasm,
humor, cockiness and other “indirect” displays
of status. VERY RARELY will a man be able to honestly
communicate to a woman whether or not he's
ready or capable of developing a meaningful
Aside from their sexual interests, men
send very indirect signals about where they're
at. If you don't know how to read through the
signals men send, then you'll get the wrong
message. Getting the wrong messages from men causes
women more pain and heartache than any other
issue around. You can avoid this pain if you learn to
identify a good man from a bad one.
A mistake I've seen women make is thinking
a guy will change her life and make her happy
and fulfilled. And sure, there are situations and relationships
where this happens. But those are the exceptions, not the rule. Nothing says “Run!” to a man faster than
hearing or sensing that a woman immediately
wants him to take care of her.
MISTAKE #8: Trying To “Convince”
Him To Like You Or Love You
And the men who ARE looking for this kind
of situation aren't exactly the most healthy,
loving, nurturing people out there. Think, “controlling, macho, or serious Mom Issues!”
So let me be clear...
I think it's important that people help
fulfill each other in their lives, whether
it's dating, a relationship, whatever. But if a woman communicates that she's
looking for a guy to take care of her, complete
her, make her whole, and all that kind of
stuff - it has a VERY negative effect on what
the man will think of her. It doesn't have to be spoken by the woman
If a woman thinks or feels this way, the man
will see it and pick up on it, regardless. This is arguably the worst thing a woman
can do early on when dating a man.
So what can you do as a woman?
You can get the man interested and involved
in your life in a more “natural” way, where
he'll be motivated to make you care about your
happiness and fulfillment on his own. This is the only way it really works for
people - male or female. Self-motivation is much stronger than external
motivation. But you have to know how to create this situation
with a man... and it rarely happens by accident.
What do most women do when they meet a man
that they REALLY like... but he's just not
that interested or isn't as serious? Right! They try to “convince” the man to
Well, I have news for you...
YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A MAN “FEELS” WHEN
IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! Never, ever, ever.
You cannot convince a man to feel differently
about you with “logic and reasoning”. Think about it. If a man doesn't “feel it” for you, how in
the world do you expect to change that by being “reasonable” with him?
But we all do it. Men are the worst at this by the way. They're always complimenting women who
don't like them and buying them gifts. Women like the behavior sometimes, but it
NEVER makes the woman like the man. She might enjoy what she gets out of it,
but it doesn't change the way she FEELS about him. When a man just isn't interested, women
will try and chase, compliment, convince and
do their best to change his mind with logical
and rational approaches.
Bad idea. Another one that will never work.
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
What To Do In Each Type Of Situation
A man has a clear idea of what he wants from a woman...
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help
And I don't mean just sex.
I know, it might be hard to believe, but
if you're out on a date with a man, he already
has an idea of what he wants from you. And if you don't know HOW to find this out,
and you just sit there looking at him and flirting,
or trying things you think will make him want you,
he won't help! If you don't know what to do in each situation,
you'll probably screw it up...
and LOSE EVERYTHING.
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This mistake keeps women from EVER having
the kind of success and finding the kind of
man and relationship that they truly want. I know, you don't like to make yourself
look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask
for help. Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me.
Over the last few years it's been hard to
watch the women around me (even those I dated)
struggle to understand the men they were
attracted to or dating. It frustrated the hell out of me and I
made the decision to do whatever it took to
help the women I knew learn how to be successful
with men and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and doing all
kinds of crazy things to learn the real-world
truth about men and women, I finally figured
things out for myself. I've read hundreds of books on psychology,
human behavior, dating/relationship advice for
men and women, love, attraction, communication,
and more. The list goes on.
I can now approach just about any situation
with dating and feel confident and understand
everything that's going on in an interaction. Best of all, I've been able to share my
knowledge and help women become more successful
with men and dating. It's been a very rewarding experience, and
it's how I became fascinated with the female
perspective in the dating world.
I've helped women get rid of that sick,
insecure feeling... the one you get when you're
lonely, you've been hurt or lied to, or when a
man you have feelings for says “he's not ready”. You don't have to be afraid you might wind up
being lied to, cheated on or that you'll end up
Oh, I Almost Forgot...
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I've spent a lot of time, effort, and energy
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meet, attract, date, and get close with a great guy. I want to help you create an amazing relationship
with the right man... without having to deal with
all the wrong men, be “manipulated” or experience
the pain and loss I've helped other women avoid.
I now believe that ANY woman can be more
successful with men and dating, and I get emails
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I know, I know... a book that can teach a regular
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